All Entries Tagged With: "Narcissists"

Narcissist’s False Self vs. True Self: Soul-snatching
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com The False Self is a decoy, it “attracts the fire”. It is a proxy for the True Self. It is tough as nails and can absorb any amount of pain, hurt and negative emotions. By inventing it, the child […]

How Narcissist’s Victims Deceive Themselves
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com If you are married to narcissist, here’s one reason to be hopeful: There are gradations of narcissism. In my writings I refer to the extreme and ultimate form of narcissism, the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). The prognosis for those […]

Narcissist’s Pathological Space: His Kingdom
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com WARNING: This video contains professional terms and language. Most other videos on my channel do NOT contain such language and I encourage you to watch them. The processes of obtaining, preserving, accumulating and recalling Narcissistic Supply take place in […]

N-Magnet: Narcissist’s Ideal Victim?
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com Many victims of narcissists are firmly convinced that they have been “chosen” by their abusers because of their capacity to empathize, their innate sensitivity, compassion, and their ability to love and care. Indeed, these qualities tend to attract exploitative […]

Narcissists: Evil?
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com The narcissist is able to tell right from wrong and to distinguish between good and evil. In the pursuit of his interests and causes, he sometimes chooses to act wickedly. Lacking empathy, the narcissist is rarely remorseful. Because he […]

Narcissists: Alien Life-forms, Lack Empathy!
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com Narcissists and psychopaths lack empathy. This deficiency renders them emotionally and cognitively crippled. They exploit, manipulate, and abuse other people because they are unable to relate to them otherwise. (From the book “Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited” by Sam Vaknin […]

Why Narcissists Laugh in Funerals?
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com It is the False Self that interacts with the world. It is the False Self that suffers and enjoys, gets attached and detached, joins and separates, develops likes and dislikes, preferences and prejudices, loves and hates. Whatever happens to […]

Narcissist’s Vulnerability: Grandiosity Hangover
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com The balding, potbellied, narcissist still courts women aggressively. The impoverished tycoon sinks deeper into debts, trying to maintain an unsustainable and lavish lifestyle. The one-novel author or one-discovery scholar still demands professional deference and expects attention by media and […]

Narcissist’s Cycles of Ups and Downs
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com As narcissistic supply waxes and wanes, the narcissist goes through cycles: a depressive phase is followed by hibernation for recuperation purposes and then the emission of a “narcissistic signal”: a call for new narcissistic supply. (From thebook “Malignant Self-love: […]

When Narcissists Become Codependents
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com Sometimes, the breakup is initiated by the long-suffering spouse or intimate partner of the narcissist or psychopath. As she develops and matures, gaining in self-confidence and a modicum of self-esteem (ironically, at the narcissist’s behest in his capacity as […]