All Entries Tagged With: "psychopaths"
Codependent’s Inner Voice: “I Can’t Live Without Him/Her”
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com Extreme cases of codependence (known as Dependent or Borderline Personality Disorders) require professional help. Luckily, most people with dependent traits and behaviors are clustered somewhere in the middle of the spectrum of dependence. 1. Help yourself by realizing that […]
Narcissist Reacts to Criticism, Disagreement, Disapproval
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com Like a trapped animal, the narcissist is forever on the lookout: was this comment meant to demean him? Was this utterance a deliberate attack? Gradually, his mind turns into a chaotic battlefield of paranoia and ideas of reference until […]
Narcissist’s False Self vs. True Self: Soul-snatching
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com The False Self is a decoy, it “attracts the fire”. It is a proxy for the True Self. It is tough as nails and can absorb any amount of pain, hurt and negative emotions. By inventing it, the child […]
The Abuser’s Mind
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com Abusers appear to be suffering from dissociation (multiple personality). At home, they are intimidating and suffocating monsters — outdoors, they are wonderful, caring, giving, and much-admired pillars of the community. Why this duplicity? It is only partly premeditated and […]
How Narcissist’s Victims Deceive Themselves
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com If you are married to narcissist, here’s one reason to be hopeful: There are gradations of narcissism. In my writings I refer to the extreme and ultimate form of narcissism, the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). The prognosis for those […]
Idealized, Devalued, Dumped
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com The quality and reliability of Narcissistic Supply are, therefore, of paramount importance. The more the narcissist convinces himself that his sources are perfect, grand, comprehensive, authoritative, omniscient, omnipotent, beautiful, powerful, rich, brilliant, and so on — the better he […]
Stalker Psychology
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com Contrary to myths perpetuated by the mass media, studies show that most stalkers are men, have high IQ’s, advanced degrees, and are middle aged (Meloy and Gothard, 1995; and Morrison, 2001). Rejected stalkers are intrusive and inordinately persistent. They […]
Narcissist’s Pathological Space: His Kingdom
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com WARNING: This video contains professional terms and language. Most other videos on my channel do NOT contain such language and I encourage you to watch them. The processes of obtaining, preserving, accumulating and recalling Narcissistic Supply take place in […]
Narcissist: Loser and Failure
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com Three traits conspire to render the narcissist a failure and a loser: his sense of entitlement, his haughtiness and innate conviction of his own superiority, and his aversion to routine. The narcissist’s sense of entitlement encourages his indolence. He […]
Abuse Victim as Hostage: Stockholm Syndrome and Trauma Bonding
Everything you Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: www.narcissistic-abuse.com It takes two to tango — and an equal number to sustain a long-term abusive relationship. The abuser and the abused form a bond, a dynamic, and a dependence. Expressions such as “folie a deux” and the “Stockholm Syndrome” […]